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Erika Koch-Weser founded Two Lights Therapy Center in Chicago, Illinois with a mission to address the critical gap in care for individuals impacted by narcissism & narcissistic abuse. Recognizing the scarcity of specialized support in this area, Erika dedicated her practice to providing compassionate, expert guidance to help clients navigate their healing journey and reclaim their sense of self.

About
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Specialized & thoughtful care for all things narcissism-related!

Erika holds advanced training in narcissistic abuse recovery and has completed Certified Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician (NATC) Training with Dr. Ramani Durvasula, the leading expert on narcissistic personality styles & narcissistic abuse recovery treatment. Erika also works with those who are challenged by their own narcissistic personality style or narcissistic traits, helping clients to better manage their tendencies & relationships.

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Helping you towards healing

Expert Care with a Personal Touch

Erika completed both her undergraduate & graduate degrees at the University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign. Erika's approach is heavily informed by her interests & studies in attachment theory, antagonistic relationships, memory, & human cognition.

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Erika understands the importance of a safe, judgment-free therapeutic space. Her clients are encouraged to always bring their authentic selves to sessions. There are no ‘stupid questions’ at Two Lights Therapy Center. Erika fosters an atmosphere of curiosity, compassion, and acceptance. Whether you’re exploring complex emotions or seeking some clarity, Erika is committed to meeting you where you are, empowering you to grow at your own pace.​​​

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"It is generally the case that people with narcissistic partners have a deep capacity for empathy, love, & vulnerability. Often, my clients find that these aforementioned strengths were exploited, leaving them feeling lost, confused, betrayed, deeply distressed, or even infuriated. In sessions with me, all emotions are welcome. I look forward to meeting you."

- Erika

LCSW

LICENSED PSYCHOTHERPIST

Ensuring an ethical approach.

NATC

NARCISSISM EXPERT

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Certified Treatment Clinician

PEL

PROFESSIONAL EDUCATOR

Works with children & families. 

UIUC

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Proud U of I Alumni

GRADUATE

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"There is no better feeling than watching the growth of my clients" - Erika

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Small Case Loads

  At Two Lights Therapy, we maintain small caseloads, consistently investing time between sessions to further research and reflect on the best treatment options for your unique case.

  We conduct non-traditional intakes. At Two Lights Therapy Center, we have developed a unique intake process that centers our clients, balancing the collection of vital history whilst leaving space and time for your story.

Non-Traditional Intakes

Continuing Education

  Continuing education is a priority and not simply completed as a means to meet licensing standards. We set aside time weekly to stay up to date on best practices & new innovations & developments in treatment.

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Things We Won't Do

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1. No Judgment!

 

This is therapy-- not court!

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2. No Toxic Positivity

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Not everything needs a silver lining.

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5. No Rushing

 

We will work towards your goals at a realistic pace.

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4. No Pushing You To Leave

 

Whether or not you decide to leave your relationship is ultimately your decision.

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3. No Minimizing Your Feelings/Experiences

 

They are all valid.

Endorsement

"Erika is an incredibly skilled and proficient clinician."

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"She has a deft understanding and approach with antagonistic relational distress, and I'd recommend her to anyone in Illinois looking to begin their healing journey."

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healing starts here

​​- Madeline Becker, LPC

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LET'S GET STARTED

Ready to start your healing journey?

Starting therapy can feel daunting, but rest assured, we are eager to assist you and answer any questions you might have.

Start your journey with us today!

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